Election or unreliable selection !?

It's a high time in India, it's the time when confusion level rises to hight, the time when you don't hear yourself but political leaders... The time when suddenly leaders take interest in our problems... The time when promises are made with intention not to fulfill... The time of elections or our unreliable selection !?

Well I kept this name to election not because I am against it , that's the best part of democracy but few or preciesly lot of things makes it unreliable selection! We elect leaders without a perfect reason... 

Every 5 years they come to us with a lots of promises , lots of offers, lots of deals (of course deals they ask voted in return give us some favor_ that's a deal ryt!) They make the opposition inferior to them and show themselves as superior and pure (but are they actually superior and pure or holy? Question to be answered right?) And we select on this things... Don't you think it's our unreliable selection ? We hand over the whole country our beloved country, our beloved State and city to them to rule just like that! Even Kings used to give their kingdom to the most prosperous and talented son centuries back! And we here well educated people in 21st century elect our leaders for 5 long years just on unreliable and unreasonable things! Don't you think we are too foolish to do so! 

But who has time to think all that...!

Well all the best again then with your election or may I say unreliable selection!

India from the eyes of Indians

We all have different perspective towards every single thing and the world has a different eyesight for we indians but what does our India looks like for us ?

No doubt we love our country more than anything in the world but still have you ever thaught what is our perspective on our culture, caste, community, business world, social world, education world, youth of country, the millioniors of country, forest , rivers, mountains and valleys, roads and railway ? We blindly still believe all the old customs (some are good while some aren't)  Never even thinking once regarding  it.... Well we never think that deep , when we see good some of us appreciate while some think the one who did good is obliged with his duties, when we feel something wrong eaither we  oppose it or keep quite saying why do I care..?  Well honestly we all care for every single thing reagarding our country and proof is our action and reaction on Pullwama attack. 

The beauty of country lies in the eyes of the beholder ! Well that's true but we beholders are so stuck in making money that we have forgotten to see the beauty anymore. India our country needs a new pair of eyes to cherish it's beauty properly and conveniently and we indians need a little make over to our eyesight...

The quote below is dedicated to the Pullwama attack, may the souls of soldiers rest in peace and may God help us to teach the culprits a good lesson once and for all the damages they have done...

Jai Hind !

French braid !

Every single person love their hair a lot and when it comes to girls they want their hair to be beautiful and seelky and maximum girls love experimenting different hair styles with it well I am no different then normal girls. Even I love doing various hair styles especially when I am blessed with long and seelky soft hair.

I love braiding my hair in different styles and the style I love the most and which took lot of my energy and time is French braid.

One of my friends knew how to perfectly do it and did it with hair for some occasion and wanted to learn it for myself. 

I approached her and asked her to teach me. She went on showing me step by step and I payed full attention to it, tried doing it several times later but terribly failed. Using YouTube even did helped me much. Instead giving up I tried and tried almost five days Everytime I got free time I tried it over and over again. My hands started paining, hair sometimes became little messy and pain in my shoulder was horrible, I learned fish tail braiding earlier but successfully did in first attempt unlike this time. 

But didn't gave up as I was too obsessed to learn it and finally I started doing it perfectly they way desired to.

All this incident conclude that when you are passionate about something and want to be successful in it so you should never stop making efforts for it. We say na, try try but don't cry.... One or the other day all pain and efforts will pay off... Like mine paid and I learned doing French braid. I know it's a small thing but sometimes small things teaches you big lessons of life.

we don't need your fake assurance anymore !

It's 2019, lokasabha elections are on head, again there will be hundreds of campaigns from every political party, lakhs of speeches, thousands of assurance blah... Blah... Blah...

Again we will choose someone on their fake assurance for next 5 years and again we will face palm ourselves on seeing how useless they are and how fake their assurances were... But my question is till what date this is going to continue, every time political leaders will come to our door step for vote assuring to fulfill our demand and then after winning we become invisible like Mr.India 

We need to tell that we don't want their speeches, don't want to hear fake assurance, not interested in their waste of money compaigns we need action and steps. We need overall development of our country, we want employment for youth, solution for poverty,  right judgement on pending casses of court, justice against crime, fight against terrorism and jail to all who are under corruption. I know it's not easy but at least take a step instead of fake facts and doing world tour on our money.

We need to make them understand that we aren't stupid, we can easily see how uselessly they are wasting our money and time. We need to tell them that we don't need your fake assurance anymore !

Who deserves to be in the Reservation quota?

Reservation has became a new challenge before government but it's the biggest challenge before society. Every other community is demanding for the reservation but the question is that reservation on the basis of community is right or not ?

Every community has three type of people devided on the financial basis, rich, middle and lower class. Why provide same opportunity to upper class and lower class, when upper class can afford the opportunity and lower class can't.

It isn't right to give reservation on the basis of the caste and community instead it should be provided on the basis of capability and talents. All those talented and capable are thrown aside just because they are not from reservation quota group.

Lots of talented youngsters are unemployed just due to reservation on the basis of caste. I think before government society needs to think this and need to change their mind set and government needs to be strict and logical enough about reservation and scholarships.

Is India comparable to other countries?

One of the question that has varities of answers but none gives the right one! Is India comparable to other countries ? The country with the oldest civilization, the country with varities of communities and culture, the country with colors, the country with an extraordinary talanted people,the country that is the  largest damocratic in the world, the country which had thousands of great leaders, the country that never gave up in it's freedom struggle and the country with values and ethics Isn't at all comparable to any country. 

Every country is different in it's own different way but comparing one with other isn't right. We can take inspiration from one country to develop the other but judging them isn't fair.

Every country had it's own bunch of problem we too have like unemployment, poverty, economic and financial issues, terrorism, corruption and hundreds of other issues but have you guys seen our strength and determination to fight it. The unity in diversity factors are affected but haven't you seen how strongly we stand for each other in the times of crisis, which country is perfect... Definitely none but perfection isn't important all that matters is effort.... And our efforts are seen we are the fastest growing economy in the world. 90% of indians living abord at respectable position in every organization.

So according to the heart of an indian I don't feel India is comparable to the other countries of world. No country can be great enough, safe enough, awesome enough, colorfull enough then mine.

#Metoo moment a bliss or boon

The trending#Metoo moment have crossed borders really very fast but the question arises is, is it a bliss or boon ? No doubt it's helping women raise voice against the harrrshment they have faced but the fact isn't unkown that this moment is helping women take undue advantage over men who are not guilty though not all are doing the same but fair amount of example are seen.

I am myself a woman and strongly support feminisim and other government moments for safety but I strongly oppose those who take unfair advantage of these social moves.  

Men need to respect women and equally women need to be faithful regarding these respect they get. She needs to understand that raising voice against wrong is fair but to harrash someone under her personal revenge or to get lime light though the person isn't guilty is equally wrong. 

Have a positive look out towards the moments and stop spoiling lives of innocent. If someone does wrong show him the hell but don't put angels in hell too.

The sacrifice of Karbala

There have been lot of talks about Hussain(as) and 72 martrys among people, they often ask what's so special about them and Moharram or Aashara Mubaraka ? Why is Dawoodi bohra community is so dedicated to this ? 

It's been around 1400 years but still the grief is fresh.

It's the muhharram that we are known for...It's the sorrow of Immam Hussain (as) death that make our souls alive...

He faught for justice and humanity, sacrificed his whole family and 72 loyal soilders. His brother, his sons even the one who was just six months old, his happy and prosperous family was destroyed to save Islam, justice  and humanity but still he was thanking God for everything and sacrificed himself too.

It's his (as) sacrifice that we are prosperous today...Hussain (as)  grief and sacrifice is not just the story of 1400 years ago but also the reason  why we are Dawoodi Bohra and Shia and the reason we live...

Labaik ya Hussain

I left you with a heavy heart

There are lot of people who you left back while moving forward but not all of them who you left were the one deserving, some of them deserved to stay but still situation and circumstances made you leave them.

I had lot of people in my life who I left with heavy heart. And honestly I miss them really bad every time I remember the memories associated to them. Few of my school friends, few of my college mates, some social media friends, few random meeting friends and some of my close friends. I know they even have a heavy heart holding up for us being apart. They might think I am changed, or I did not care for them or never had them a special place but trust me I did care even I do now and wish them a very happy Life and all of them had a special place. The fact is true I am changed, who doesn't change with time. Though my legs are stick to my grounds but still I had a drastic change in myself. Things around me were screaming for me to change. 

I just want them to know, that I still care for them, they still have special place in my heart and in my memories and Even I left them with a really very heavy heart....

My Nalayak

One of the best blessing is to have a best friend next to you and i have got it, none other than my best friend and soul sister Pooja Suthar aka My Nalayak or chutki or gadhi though I don't have particular Nick name for her but one I commonly use is Nalayak(her usless jokes and laziness makes her so😁) and me ?well I am her panda (the chubby and cute she thinks of me that way😁)

We really had a rough start to our friendship, honestly none of us wanted to be friends with each other but it eventually turned into inseparable buddies. Today no one can imagine that before two years we were totally strangers, we know and understand each other so well. We both had a rough friendship zone and always had troubling friends but then we found each other and now we trouble others together.

Friendship is always the best thing to carry forward because it drives craziness, happiness, wierdness and fun which isn't comparable to anything it can even break you if it's not right and toxic but the one that comes in complete package of blessings can give you the whole world under your feet. We have shared a lot of memories, emotions, happiness, sadeness even each other's things. And I am going to build the short story book on it specially dedicated to friendship but for now thanks for being my Nalayak, Pooja. Love you babe..

Our special friendship song that we used to sing in college together...

Tere jaisa yaar kahan
Kahan aisa yaarana
Yaad karegi duniya
Tera mera afsana

Meri zindagi sawaari
Mujhko gale lagake
Baitha diya falak pe
Mujhe khaat se oothake

Meri zindagi sawaari
Mujhko gale lagake
Baitha diya falak pe
Mujhe khaat se oothake
Yaara teri yaari ko
Maine to khuda mana
Yaad karegi duniya
Tera mera afsana

Mere dil ki yeh dua hai
Kabhi door tu na jaaye
Tere bina ho jeena
Woh din kabhi na aaye

Mere dil ki yeh dua hai
Kabhi door tu na jaaye
Tere bina ho jeena
Woh din kabhi na aaye
Tere sung jeena yahan
Tere sung mar jaana
Yaad karegi duniya
Tera mera afsana

Tere jaisa yaar kahan
Kahan aisa yaarana
Yaad karegi duniya
Tera mera afsana

It's me to say sorry

It's really tough to be tough you don't have anyone with whom you can share your emotions and problems. But still you need an urge to do so but can't and if you do it you feel as if it's me to say sorry to share with you.

You are hurt, your broken but can't speak up and when you do no one cares to listen. When you complain no one is there to sort it out, when you feel like sh*t but still no one is there to be next to you make you feel special. The irony is this people then later complain that you don't share your thoughts. Hell yeah I don't share with you because you don't care. And even if you do you never made sure to show me that you ever cared. But still it's me to say sorry because I never expected anything from you more than a small second from your life which even is unaffordable for you. It's ohkay I totally understand but I don't when you will start understanding me because there's no sign of it.

But still it's me to say sorry because I expected very little from you but you can't afford it too.

Dr. Sayedna Mohommed Burhanuddin

Dr. Sayedna Mohommed Burhanuddin, the leader of Bohra community.

Every community has its own community leader guarding and directing the community people to the path of religion but there are very few such leaders who not only guide us to the path of religion but also acts and becomes our mother and father one such leader was Dr. Sayedna Mohommed Burhanuddin, he served Bohra community for 50 long years not just being the leader but being the mother who calms and comfort their children and father who is strict and bright to help his kids for to walk on right path. 

After the Death of Dr. Sayedna Taher Saifuddin, Dr. Sayedna Mohommed Burhanudin became his successor, who has memorized whole Quran at the age of 6 and has successfully became chancellor of Aligarh Muslim University twice. He not only bought the Bohra community to the path of religion but also sustained over all development of them. Improvement in education, standard of living, dressing, knowledge, employment, love, modern facilities with implementation of technology and taking care of emotional, financial and health of every single Dawoodi Bohra.

Faiz-ul-mawaid-ul-burhaniya for free food for every Dawoodi bohra, cleanliness, Eco- friendly devlopment, business and employment facilities, scholarships and lots more. If we bohra go on counting his gifts it would take more then 100 years to list them out. Most important gift was the gathering for Moharram events, to pay homage for sacrifice of Prophet Mohommed's (saw) grand son Husain Imam (as) who sacrificed himself and his whole family with 72 martyrs in the war to save humanity and justice in the world. Paying homage to him and remebering his sacrifice is the least we could do. His holliness made us realize the value of Husain Imam's sacrifice and made us worth to may homage to him.

It's been 5 years since the death of Dr. Sayedn Mohommed Burhanuddin but still by just recalling his name every Dawoodi bohra's eyes gets moist. Not just for community but he worked for everyone and served them whoever came to him no matter which community, caste or tribe the person belonged to. It feels impossible to believe that His Holiness is no more.

I had a very cute habit from childhood that in any problem or happiness I will stand in front of his photo and joining my hands i will speak heart out to him, as if he is my mother, father and best friend too. He always said that any problem or situation just bow your head and recall me I will definitely come to help you and he always kept his words and promise whenever we recall him in any circumstances he is  their to solve it out. He slept peacefully near his father in Raudat Taher, Bhindi Bazar Mumbai and that place is much more than a religious pilgrimage but the place where every Bhora's heart belongs.

We miss you  Burhanuddin Maula  day and night or it would be more correct to say every second of our life.